Today I am thankful for my husband. We have been married for for years, but been together for just under 12 years. I made the mistake several years ago of telling him to stop spending all of his money on me because I had a job and could buy my own stuff. I wanted him to save his money. Oops! One of my biggest mistakes. He DID so buying me things but DID NOT save his money. It had since been an uphill battle to get him to buy me gifts ( spontaneous or not). If how I wish I could take that decision back all those years ago! Don't get me wrong, he will have his streaks of sweetness. Today I came home to him baking cookies, had roses, ice cream, and hard cider. I love this man! I think he picked up on the fact that i have been having a rough week.
I remember Mike's response when I told him that we were pregnant. I believe the first thing he said was, "nice". Haha! That sounds just like him. I think that he was totally freaking out on the inside; he told me that he did not grow up around babies. It has been wonderful to watch him conquer his fears of being a dad and to step up when it is really needed. Their relationship did not start out the best but it has grown into something beautiful.
We have had our ups and downs but I think we are doing okay right now. I am working full time, with a part time business as well and Mike finally got his conversion. Yay for a set schedule and benefits. He is a hard and loyal worker. I was so frustrated for him, but he kept telling me to just be patient. He sure was. I love you Michael, even though you don't read these posts.
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